My mother recently visited a cousin who has several adult children in shidduchim as well. Our cousin had the most encouraging words: “All it takes is two weeks.” Meaning, in two weeks from now, everything could be different. In two weeks from now, you could be planning a vort, not even sure why you used to worry so much. Yeshuas Hashem k’heref ayin.
P.S. Penny for your thoughts?