Choose-Your-Own Adventure: The “Saying No” Edition
Because we know that “Can you send me your resume?” only sounds like an innocent question…
Things You Don’t Have To Do Just Because You’re Single
You’re still you and you’re still an autonomous adult even if you’re single…
How To Write a Bucket List (Plus, a Group List)
Since I posted about my bucket list last year, I’ve been continuously revisiting and adding to it. The other week, I was talking to a family member about writing a list of her own and asked her to start listing goals/dreams out loud. It took a bit to warm up, but then she started sharing dreams, and truly it was …
Things To Remember About Social Networks
A few months ago I read Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World, by Vivek Murthy, and I’m still thinking about it. Highly recommend! The book describes the damaging effects of loneliness and the importance of social connection. Every day at work I speak with people who are isolated from social supports and let …
Challah For My Birthday
How do you feel about asking people for help? Last year before my thirtieth birthday, I decided to organize a group of women to do hafrashas challah as a zechus for me. I had read in Rising: The Book of Challah, by Rochie Pinson, of a segulah to have 43 women do hafrashas challah as a zechus for a …
NYC Spring List Check-In
Can’t believe it’s seven weeks since I posted my list. It was right after Pesach and my schedule was slowly opening up as the semester wound down. I’m pleased that I’ve checked off half the list so far and done a few other nice things around the city.
Features of My Dream Home
Dreaming is the first step.
When You Are Significantly “Behind”
In the early days of shidduchim, when friends and classmates got married, it felt awkward and made me feel insecure to see where they were at. The chasm between single me and married them seemed ridiculously vast, and only widened further with the arrival of their first baby or two, often in short order. I felt anxious to catch up …
Dating Advice Mad Libs
Hi, _____ [your first name]? This is your shadchan, Mrs. Triggerfloffer. I wanted to talk to you before your date tonight.
On Regret and Healing
I recently read an excellent book called What’s Your Grief? by Eleanor Haley and Litsa Williams, exploring the many facets of navigating and coping with a loss of any kind. I like the bullet point format, which makes the book easy to read and digest. One of the topics addressed is regret. Our brains often tell us that something …