Stuff To Remember About Relationships
Below is a non-authoritative, non-comprehensive brain dump that I did in my journal in response to a prompt. What would you add?
Who Makes Shidduchim?
I started listening recently to Daily Bitachon with Michael Safdie, a businessman who learns and teaches a short lesson a day on bitachon. My aunt turned me on to it, and though I hadn’t felt pulled specifically to learn this topic, I’m finding that it is giving me oxygen.
Abundance
This article by Ingrid Fetell Lee is honestly the best thing I’ve read about scarcity mindset.
What To Ask Yourself When You Feel Stuck
This winter/early spring, as you’ll soon tire of hearing, was verrry stressful. I had a notion that being super-busy would feel energizing and empowering (?), but in the end it was just horrifying (lol). I started to feel anxious about life in general and stuck and even hopeless. I hadn’t realized to what extent the work stress was impacting me …
Acceptance
The word “acceptance” can feel like sneaky code for resignation or defeat. What does it truly mean to accept your situation as it is? To me, it means moving forward with wishes and plans in a manner that acknowledges and integrates reality as it is now, without fighting it.
Nothing
Many of us have a “frequent flyer” shidduch suggestion that keeps coming up, and in my case, the answer is “Yes, we know about each other, he isn’t interested…” For context, he lives near me, he went out with my cousin,
List Your Life
My new fun journaling technique is list-making. I have been finding it cathartic and a lot of fun to pick a topic and dump out whatever comes to mind. List-making is an easy entry into journaling — we know what to do. Below is a list of list-making prompts for your journal. Before you begin, a few guidelines to keep …
Awake On a Long Flight To Somewhere
My friend used this analogy to describe what it feels like to be in a difficult situation unfolding on its own timeline. There’s not much you can do (i.e. nothing) to shorten the timeframe; what you can do is find ways to make the process more tolerable.
A Book for Shavuos
Eons ago, when I was in seminary, I wrote a limud Torah report. Maybe you did, too? We each chose a theme and explored it from various angles using different sources. (I wrote about limud Torah lishma, what it means and what it does for a person). It was a very meaningful project and I gained a lot from it. …
Alphapoem (And A Poem on Prayer)
I recently wrote an alphapoem for my current writing course and want to share the process with you. An alphapoem is similar to an acrostic in that you write a word or phrase vertically down the left side of your page and use it to write your poem. However, whereas an acrostic purposely begins each line with the next letter …