Many of us are often in the position of being a guest in someone’s home, whether for a Shabbos meal or over a Shabbos or Yom Tov. Some thoughts about being a comfortable and courteous guest:
- It’s nice to offer help but definitely give your parameters and don’t feel bad! I generally don’t do food prep, but I’m happy to set and bring things to the table.
- My favorite hostess gifts are consumable, like peanut chews or wine, since people have different tastes and might not necessarily love housewares I choose for them.
- Talk to/pay attention to the kids. It’s often helpful, and is appreciated by kids and their parents.
- If you’re sleeping over, leave your bedroom door open a crack when you’re “available” so your host doesn’t have to decide whether they can/should knock.
- Compliment everything! People always wonder if you like their home/cooking/hospitality if you don’t tell them.
What would you add?
