I just want to drop a little chizuk here. One of my cousins struggled a lot with shidduchim like I do. Thinking she must be too sensitive, too picky, too needy, too something. It was after one of our conversations that I wrote the article about being an HSP in shidduchim, based on what we talked about. Then she met someone. And they liked each other. And they got engaged three weeks later.
At her vort she told me she did nothing different. It just happened.
It really does happen. It feels so out of reach, so impossible. So not-what-happens-to-me. Until it does happen to you. You can do this. Hold on.
