My friend had the wisest observation: why do some people’s brachos feel uncomfortable and cringey, and others’ are warm and appreciated? One way to give a bracha that makes people feel good is to give a compliment integrated with the bracha. You have the nicest way with children. You’ll be an amazing parent iy”H. When a bracha is all about what you lack, it can drag you down. But when it’s about amplifying what is already great about you, it can make you feel amazing.
