My friend recently got engaged, which reminded me that yes, it does happen. When it does, I want to be able to look back and be proud of myself for how I conducted myself through this process. When something is so painful, it’s hard to stay in command at all times, but these are some things I want to work on:
More
tefillah
patience for Hashem’s process
letting go
graciousness towards the people who want to help
Less
cynicism
hopelessness
fortune telling