Seder

Some thoughts before Pesach…   I read a beautiful explanation for why we use the word “Seder” for the first night of Pesach. Maharal says this refers to the seder, or order, for everything that happens in life. Even when events seem random or out of control, everything is happening with a reason according to Hashem’s seder. And Seder night …

Hope vs. Positivity

My clients discussed the concept of hope in our support group last week. Each group member is dealing with a serious illness, and one of them brought up a story she had heard on television. A father and son were in Auschwitz together, and one night the father used their ration of margarine to light a flame for Chanukah. The …

Al Matzos U’Merrorim

The Nesivos Shalom writes that there are three levels of emunah:   Emunas hamoach — intellectual belief, I understand that Hashem is in control. Emunas halev — emotional belief, I feel it in my heart. And emunas ha’eivarim — visceral belief, I know it in my bones.   Seder night is mesugal for internalizing the third level, emunas ha’eivarim. Matzah …

A Shopping Order is Also a Prayer

Thank you to those who completed the survey! Much appreciated. Hint, hint…   Pesach this week! Let’s do it!   I have an embarrassing obsession with Pesach shopping orders. Don’t ask.   Back in the day, my mother used to do one giant grocery trip before she started cooking in the Pesach kitchen. Sometimes I would go with her and …

How Was This Pesach?

Hi, everyone, welcome back here! It’s hard to believe we’re on the other side of Pesach and this shelter in place situation has been going on for five weeks already (alternatively, for only five weeks so far), at least in the New York area.   How are you all doing and how was your Yom Tov? This was my first …

G-d’s Imagination (Or, Kriyas Yam Suf and You)

My Partner in Torah and I just finished learning about kriyas Yam Suf (excellent timing, yes) and as I have found over and over since we started learning Chumash, the pesukim gave me great chizuk. I gained a lot from learning these pesukim and really visualizing and feeling the experience. Specific details will touch different people; I am struck by …

A Quiet Pesach

This morning I went grocery shopping. The spy-girl energy was undeniable as I walked into the store hours before I’m usually up, in a mask and gloves, scoping out the territory. The store wasn’t empty (eeps) but what struck me was the silence. We all just wanted to get through our lists and skedaddle. And we were all afraid to …

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