The America Feeling

I got the term “the America feeling” from Gretchen Rubin. It perfectly captures the patriotism + transcendence I feel when I have certain experiences. Like visiting Washington, D.C., which I’ve done many times, especially walking around the congressional office buildings. (How cool is it to stroll past office suites marked “North Dakota,” “Louisiana,” and “Texas” and watch mysterious and official-looking …

On Unlocking Down

A couple of weeks ago I wrote about how reopening is making me anxious because it was so nice to have a break from shidduchim. There are some other aspects of this lockdown that I’ll really miss.   -Charming backyard weddings. I really wanted one. -Having an easy way to feel like I was doing everything right. I will miss …

So Many Tabs Open

This new online life might be far from ideal but I’m kind of leaning into the craziness and allowing myself to not be so productive. One of the side effects of spending half the day (okay, exaggeration, but only slightly) on Zoom is that you end up opening all these tabs and going down rabbit holes and clicking on links …

Okay, Let’s Plan a Dining Room Wedding

Sorry if y’all want a break from…the situation, but bear with me another moment. I find such charm in anything tiny and, between you and me, my secret wish was always to have an intimate little wedding (too much Anne of Green Gables, perhaps?). So, these days my imagination is in overdrive. As always, my heart truly goes out to …

Let’s Plan a Backyard Wedding

At this point, just about everyone’s lives have been turned upside down. With schools shut down, businesses shuttered, and flights cancelled, not to mention the social distancing measures, I’m getting so jittery. Weddings have had to be dramatically scaled down…and that got me thinking about what I would do if my wedding was taking place under these circumstances. It’s actually kind …

Mahjong Lessons

This week I started to play mahjong. I most definitely have an overly romantic notion of mahjong but I definitely wanted to learn it. I started my lessons this week (tutor: 80-year-old woman) and it felt a bit like being lost in Wonderland, where everyone else understands some kind of inscrutable logic you can only weakly follow…   So what …

Twenty For 2020

Elul is when I take stock of the previous year and think about the direction I want to go in the coming year, but January is also an opportune time to reflect on the past and plan for the future, if only because that’s what planners and calendars accommodate. While I haven’t made any resolutions per se (more of an …

The Ultimate Chanukah Grab Bag List

Sometimes we have a grab bag at our family Chanukah parties and it’s so much fun. Basically, everyone brings a wrapped gift that cost less than $5 and puts it in a giant bag (you can separate adult and kid gifts if you’d like). The fun is mostly in getting to tear off the wrapping paper. It’s not really about …

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