Much of shidduchim is avodas perach: over and over, you do things that are hard and they sink into quicksand. You think your efforts will get you somewhere, and they sink into quicksand. I honestly don’t know how anyone can live like that. And then I remember that I am living like that. I don’t understand how.
Hashem Who took us out of Mitzrayim sees and hears us, and just like He took us out then, from one moment to the next, He can do it again. Hashem can break any pattern. He is with us in this special, individual, incomprehensible, irreconcilable galus.
