I haven’t been inspired enough recently and I’m looking for shiurim to listen to. Preferably a series so I can just go from one to the next for a while. My Partner in Torah and I are now up to Parshas Mikeitz. It’s really nice to be learning with her but I’m looking for a teacher for me. …
You’d think shopping would have come up on the blog by now (I mean, really), but for some reason it hasn’t. These tips could be a subcategory of Secrets of Adulthood. I wrote them up after a pretty intense shopping marathon this week. It’s officially summer weather and the shopping couldn’t be put off any longer, much as I dread …
For the past couple of weeks, I’ve been engrossed in the audio version of The Body Keeps the Score, a book about trauma by Bessel van der Kolk. It’s a 16-hour listen and the subject matter is pretty intense (but fascinating!), so I’ve only listened for about an hour or two a day. I’m almost done, so feel free to …
For a while, I have not felt right about my career choice. The thing is, I really enjoy learning about just about anything and so much of what I learned in graduate school was interesting and useful. So it just didn’t occur to me along the way that I might not love the practice nearly as much as the theory. …
I’ve been thinking over something that came up a couple of times at my sister’s vort/wedding. Some well-meaning people who also had married younger siblings wished me a “welcome to the club.” But…I didn’t want to be part of anyone’s club. I wanted to be free to have my own process, and to get to a place where I was …
It’s hard to believe that we’re already on the other side of Yom Tov! This year has gone by so quickly — I remember writing in my journal in October that I had another 8 months left to the school year, and where have they gone? It’s been an interesting year with some unexpected developments and I feel that I’ve …
A few weeks ago, I came home from (another) disappointing date and felt utterly drained and completely out of options. I called a friend, who stayed on the phone with me for an hour while I cried. She told me, “The only thing to do is not give up. We are not in control of what happens when. But we …
A few weeks ago, a family friend called and said, “I was working on a shidduch for you and the mother said she spoke to your references and they told her you’re not interested in someone who X.” Now, this was inaccurate and I told this person as much (and I highly doubt my references, who know me well, worded …
I want to plan my wedding! The wedding prep around here has totally given me the bug. Recently, I started keeping a wedding notebook so I have somewhere to jot down all my thoughts and ideas for my wedding iy”H. So far I have pages for Things To Do First Upon Getting Engaged, Music I Like, Chuppah, Thoughts on the …
For three days before my first first date ever (not a typo), I could barely eat. Looking back, I can identify what fears were running through my mind, but at the time I had no idea. My pre-first date nerves have calmed way down, but it’s still a challenge to maintain complete presence of mind. I wrote down some things …
